Introduction....!!

Generally many people look around to find some people who really care for us, and who alwaaz stay with us..but the minute they leave us,our heart bears uncontrollable pain .(...I came to know this when some people left me alone..I'm Surya Sampath, People call me as Surya...i used to get hurt a lot when anyone discourages me or speaks anything bad about me..But later, i thought myself, why  the hell should i give a chance to some1 to speak about me???,..So, I must change my attitude ????..Nah, my soul said, I cant change for the sake of others....Then what should i do, so that others treat me like a human.???..After, thinking about this for months,I realized that showing love  and by leaving all the ego's gives a good impression. the time i realized this fact, I was having 6-8 enemies in my life....I simply said a word " SORRY" to them...they accepted and reflected me the same...Now they are in one of my best friends list..I really felt very happy at that time..I came to know that LOVE brings many changes in one's life...!!!!..But i still worried, Why people choose suicide as their first option when they are in troubles.????....I just did a small research in this aspect..and came to know that lack of confidence and correct motivation makes us think about these stupid options which unfortunately any man can do without paying a single rupee.!!! Let me share my experiences and my thoughts with u all...

your life has purpose and meaning.

You are not here just to fill space or to be a background character in someone else's movie. Even now my eyes bcum wet when my calender shows SEP 24th..One of my friend VIDHYASAGAR's death date. He is having a good circle of friends and even i'm one of them. But he never shred his sorrow's with anyone. We could not help in out in any of his sorrow's . In the same way, Everyday we use to see, Small kids...Youth...Housewives...college students etc etc  chooses their first option as suicide when they fail in silly matters like LOVE, EXAM's etc ...I never came to know why these people think to quit from this world. While chatting with my pals in Facebook, I found some pages with s strange tittles like " I WANNA DIE"..." I HATE MY SELF"...." NO ONE CARES ME".. etc etc...I'm amazed to see that thousands of people liked that page..Even i entered that page to know what actually it is...I found many people saying " Today is my end" etc etc ..i guess,on april 16th,2011 i saw a girl posted "from today i'm sleeping forever"...Immediately i sent a friend req to her and sent a message saying please dnt think like that ....but she dint reply  and her wall is empty from April 16th.No one knows where she is....As there are many pages like this, I posted in a page   saying " Im a love failure, i wanna die"...in another page " im born poor,im sleeping forever"....in the same way, i posted many problems like um-employment, no one cares me etc etc... in some pages....By seeing these posts on my wall, Many of my friends called me and scolded me, My relatives started to spread rumors that sampath loved sum1 and failed etc etc...My bother and Mom decided to come to my place for hitting me.... But many people tried to change my mind, motivated me, they used to say " we are there fa u, We need u" etc etc..they used to start asking stupid questions like " Will u leave me and go ??" etc etc...Finally, I realized that the most stupid thought SUICIDE comes into our mind, when we loose our confidence and lack of good motivation and also we can say that lack of proper person to guide us.!!!!!

Happy and unhappy ....!!!

In olden days, People are separated into two categories. i.e touchable and untouchable...After many generations, Time separated  people into into poor and rich....but nw a daaz, people started comparing themselves into happy  and unhappy...Lack of satisfaction is the main reason for a person to bcum unhappy... Happy people do not experience one success after another and unhappy people, one failure after another. Instead, surveys show that happy and unhappy people tend to have had very similar life experiences. The difference is that the average unhappy person spends more than twice as much time thinking about unpleasant events in their lives, while happy people tend to seek and rely upon information that brightens their personal outlook. So if we think about the good times we spent in our lives with our loved ones. 50% of our sorrow is decreased. Another 50 % depends on our hand work and attitude.
Dreaming about goals does not give us success....The four tires of your car have to be properly aligned, otherwise the left tires will be pointed in a different direction from the right tires and the car won't work. Goals are just like that. They all must be pointed in the same direction. If your goals conflict with one
another, your life may not work..

You are there for yourself...

Dnt think that no one is caring u or no one is joining hands with you..Dnt get depressed for silly matters. Think that u are living for yourself..You are living to improve ur society...You are living for ur country and ur parents and ur loved ones...Not for those who dnt care u...If you've been disappointed by strained relations with a friend or loved one, you must realize that each relationship is unique.If u like the relations, Then enjoy the pains in that relation also...If u name is X, alwaaz say  urself that "Im X, Im great""..Im X.Im great""..So that u feel confident..You keep on saying  urself that " I can do it,No prob"..Then ur confidence helps u do bcum success...Spending your time imagining what would have been if you could have changed some little thing, some little decision in your life, which leaves you unhappy. Think about how you can improve for the future, but don't waste your present thinking about how you could have changed the past.Don't hold inside your feelings, your thoughts, your hopes. Share them with your friends and family. People who hold things inside
tend to feel isolated, believing that others do not understand them.

I wanna just show u a small video about some people whom we know....This is just to remember u that We never know where life takes us....Just risk ur life and live..Instead  of giving up in middle...

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Finally,See urself as a Legend..!!!!

So friends, Even if u loose in ur dream, dnt loose ur confidence....Think that ur a Legend..but dnt show this feeeling on others and discourage them....Satisfy for everything GOD gave us....Finally....ul be the leader..!!!!!...I would to end my blog by taking another few minutes from ur precious time by showing a small video...

So friends, Concentrate only on ur dreams...Dnt think about the result...Dnt think abt the pain u get while struggling hard to bcum successs...Dnt think abt the people who discourage u.....Wait for the time....One day, u will see urself as a LEADER.!!!